So, my best friend is a Scorpio sun and Mercury. She recently went on a date with a guy who has the following placements:Sun conjunct Pluto, Juno, and Jupiter in Scorpio
Venus, North Node, and Mercury in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Saturn in Pisces
So, there's a lot going on. We don't know his birth time but his birthday gives a high likelihood he's an Aries moon.
Their synastry shows quite a bit of compatibility. His Mars exactly conjunct her Asc. His Venus exactly conjunct her Sun. Her Mars and Venus trine his Mars. Her Mercury conjunct his North Node. Her Moon conjunct his Chiron. His Saturn trine her Mars.
They DO have his Venus square her Uranus and his Pluto square her ascendant. Perhaps this is the issue.
They went on a date and hit it off. He told her he's very attracted to her, finds her so interesting, and really wants to get to know her. He told her he wanted to see her the following day. They sat in his car and talked for hours in front of her apartment. She said he was probing her like crazy.
Then she never hears from him so she texts him a night later asking if he is still interested.
TWO weeks later, he texts her out of the blue and tells her he's really sorry, he's been so busy and he's still very interested. She responds that it's fine but she wants him to be more consistent (or clear, I don't remember) in his communication. He says he can do that and says he really admires how honest and direct she is. She asks if he's busy that weekend.
ANOTHER week goes by. He calls her randomly again. She calls him back the next day and he doesn't answer, but texts her saying he'll call in a bit and again, he's so sorry. He calls her back 4-5 days later and she just never answered.
I personally have never heard of a Scorpio guy say he's super interested in someone and not be this responsive. Sure, Scorpios can lie and manipulate, but the date was fairly PG and she said he really focused on her and she felt like he was being serious with how he felt. To me, this guy should be probably OVERLY communicative. Not throwing out compliments every few weeks but not following through.
Would you say this interaction sounds more like a fault of his birth chart or their synastry? I think throwing Pluto into his natal conjunctions (especially in Scorpio) plays a huge factor here. Just chaotic, dramatic, and a bit anxiety-inducing I'd imagine. Like, perhaps he truly does have feelings but he's getting a power trip from controlling when he speaks to her.